Ok finally the bullet and dowel is out of the barrel. My first approach at this before I ever posted this was to drop a wooden dowel down the barrel thinking it wouldnt take much to knock it out. I was wrong so I give it a tap with my rubber mallet. This is the point where my trouble grew expotentially. The dowel was stuck wouldnt pull out and discovered it had broke in the middle. So next the grand idea was to knock it out the muzzle end since the dowel is blocking the other. I pecked on this forever no luck might have moved .250 inch the whole time. I stopped here an thought about this for a few days. I knew my options was limited wasnt about to take it to a shop an look like a real doof (rather do it here). So finally my last choice was since this is a .30 cal a .250" drill bit 12" shank would probably work. I bought a Irwin bit (these are true .25"). I put it in and twisted it by hand. Yes this took quite a while but finally the bullet was out. Next the biggest problem was about to occur. The dowel had swelled or something, leaving it stuck harder than the bullet originally. So again the 12" bit was used. I went from both ends, this time slowly turning it with the drill, so I could feel if it were to hit the side of the bore(no it didnt touch the bore period. With only .05" clearance it didnt touch and cut the dowel out leaving only a small amount on the sides of the bore. I took a cleaning rod and finally all of it came out. Now its going back together with a lesson learned for sure. There is my advice if anyone does search this topic (like I did) looking for some options:
1) Never ever use a wooden dowel, use only a steel rod something that will not break half way down the bore.
2) The bullet needs to come out the way in went in, almost impossible to knock it out the muzzle end.
3) This is a very simple fix really if a steel rod was used.
4) Use a rod almost the same size as the bore with only a little clearance.
5) Each time you tap it with the mallet dont think it will work better if you hit it harder each time, only makes more trouble for you ahead.
6) Drill bits work great but in a drill they will destroy everything, turning by hand is like watching the grass grow.
7) You must post on here so everyone can laugh at you like I did but you might wanna do it before you attempt this, if so I would have reconsidered the wooden dowel problem.
Please leave any thoughts you may have, this is why I posted the outcome.