Adberry69, when I read your first post and read thru most of the responses, I knew exactly how I was going to address your question. When I came to UTGrad's response, he basically said what I had in mind. I will describe it in different words. --- Bottom line, don't put pressure on yourself to shoot a deer. I discovered the value of this years ago when one morning I missed an easy shot at a doe. As she trotted off, I told myself, "that's OK, that's perfectly OK". The deer was not wounded, and In all of her God made beauty, she was still in the woods, making it a great place. I did not need the meat to survive and I had nobody to impress. I realized how completely unnecessary it was for me to kill the deer to have a good hunt. From that moment forward, I approached the sport differently and became a much better hunter. Ever since, I have handled every deer encounter with the mindset that I don't have to take a shot. Approaching the sport that way took "sooo" much pressure off of me. All within the same season, I became proficient at harvesting deer with a bow. I pride myself on my shots taken to deer harvested ratio. It has almost been one to one for the last twenty or so years. I only take shots that I am completely comfortable with. That means that I don't kill as many deer as some hunters, but that is perfectly OK because I don't have to shoot a deer, and I don't have to impress other hunters.
I will also second the comments about observing deer. Just watching them at close range will do wonders for you. You will know when the time is right to take a shot, and more importantly when not to take a shot.