Man I will say this. Take a real long hard look at yourself and this situation and evaluate it because I got a feeling that you just may miss her and actually love her more than you thought. Adult conversation is the only way out for you and will give her closure. Wish you the best of luck Kilby.
I'm with Rem7 on this.You better be sure what your asking for because you might just get it. she sounds like a good person that deserves to be treated with respect and no BS. Might be time to Man up. Easier said than done because I need to do a little Man up myself. Today is as good as any.