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#3235588 - 04/30/13 01:21 PM Odd relationshhip question..
Eric Kilby
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How do you end a relationship when nothing is wrong with it? My relationships have always ended like a fuse reaching a stick of dynamite...
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#3235595 - 04/30/13 01:28 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
beechnut
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Deflate.....
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#3235597 - 04/30/13 01:31 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: beechnut]
rabbit hunter
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This alt to be good............
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#3235598 - 04/30/13 01:35 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: beechnut]
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All you have to do is do (or, better yet, not do) things to make that person break up with you.
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#3235601 - 04/30/13 01:40 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Poser]
Eric Kilby
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 Originally Posted By: Poser
All you have to do is do (or, better yet, not do) things to make that person break up with you.


well that is sorta what i had thought but thus far it is not working ...
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#3235603 - 04/30/13 01:44 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
TNGunsmoke
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Just have a talk. You're both grownups, sit down someplace private, and talk. Maybe they see the same issue or lack thereof. Just don't do it in public where there can be a scene made. And be honest about it. "Something is wrong, but I just can't get my head around it" and go from there.
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#3235605 - 04/30/13 01:45 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: TNGunsmoke]
jb3
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Something is wrong or why would you end it?
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#3235607 - 04/30/13 01:49 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: TNGunsmoke]
Eric Kilby
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I dont love her like a man should love a woman he wants to spend his life with, She is a awesome person and supports whatever i want to do, doesnt complain one bit about hunting , guns or fishing and will wait on me hand and foot if i so desired. She says she loves me with all her heart and everything but i dont feel the same and I guess I am to much of a softy because i have felt this way for a while but didnt want to make anyone cry...
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#3235611 - 04/30/13 01:51 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
 Originally Posted By: Poser
All you have to do is do (or, better yet, not do) things to make that person break up with you.


well that is sorta what i had thought but thus far it is not working ...


uh oh.
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#3235614 - 04/30/13 01:53 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
I dont love her like a man should love a woman he wants to spend his life with, She is a awesome person and supports whatever i want to do, doesnt complain one bit about hunting , guns or fishing and will wait on me hand and foot if i so desired. She says she loves me with all her heart and everything but i dont feel the same and I guess I am to much of a softy because i have felt this way for a while but didnt want to make anyone cry...


The this is what you need to tell her.
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#3235615 - 04/30/13 01:53 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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From the sound of her I am sure there are some on here that would like to help her get over you. Like mentioned above, just sit down and as nice as possible have an honest conversation. Only way out I can see.
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#3235616 - 04/30/13 01:54 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
I dont love her like a man should love a woman he wants to spend his life with, She is a awesome person and supports whatever i want to do, doesnt complain one bit about hunting , guns or fishing and will wait on me hand and foot if i so desired. She says she loves me with all her heart and everything but i dont feel the same and I guess I am to much of a softy because i have felt this way for a while but didnt want to make anyone cry...


sounds to me like you ought to marry her, but if it ain't there, then it ain't there.
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#3235623 - 04/30/13 02:00 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Bone Collector]
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I've always been told you can refer someone to a music video on YouTube and tell them it reminds you of them.

Outside of that, it's grown-up talk time, as long as you're sure your not just going through a low-blood-sugar slump or extra outside stress is causing your relationship to be off-kilter.
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#3235632 - 04/30/13 02:06 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Nimrod777]
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evaporation technique..........
or just have a heart to heart with her.
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#3235634 - 04/30/13 02:09 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Nimrod777]
Eric Kilby
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to up beat? http://youtu.be/v3nbdFdCi-Y
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#3235638 - 04/30/13 02:11 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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Start picking your nose all the time. Guarantee you that will work.
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#3235643 - 04/30/13 02:17 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Tennessee Todd]
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If it isn't working for you, it isn't working. No amount of want will change that. It's always been much harder on me to be the dumper than the dumped. I'll bet she isn't that way as most people aren't. You're gonna have to tell her like it is, be her friend as much as you can, and find yourself some self-centered hellbitch to marry. Trust me. I know how it works. Good luck!
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#3235644 - 04/30/13 02:17 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Tennessee Todd]
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How long has the relationship been going, if you don't mind me asking?
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#3235646 - 04/30/13 02:20 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Vermin93]
Eric Kilby
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a little over a year
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#3235648 - 04/30/13 02:23 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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Do my brother's method. Just disappear!
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#3235650 - 04/30/13 02:28 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: redheadshooter]
Eric Kilby
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 Originally Posted By: redheadshooter
Do my brother's method. Just disappear!


She moved in with me or that would work... I was seeing a girl a town over once and decided i wanted to break up with her on the way home .. so i text her pretending i was my brother and told her i had died in a motorcycle wreck...
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#3235651 - 04/30/13 02:29 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Vermin93]
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Man I will say this. Take a real long hard look at yourself and this situation and evaluate it because I got a feeling that you just may miss her and actually love her more than you thought. Adult conversation is the only way out for you and will give her closure. Wish you the best of luck Kilby.
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#3235654 - 04/30/13 02:33 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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Mud Dauber
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
 Originally Posted By: redheadshooter
Do my brother's method. Just disappear!


She moved in with me or that would work...


Been down that road before.
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#3235655 - 04/30/13 02:34 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: REM7]
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Be honest. Should have told her when you first started feeling this way.
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#3235657 - 04/30/13 02:35 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: REM7]
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Come on out the closet like everyone else. \:D
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#3235661 - 04/30/13 02:38 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: preds1]
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 Originally Posted By: preds1
Come on out the closet like everyone else. \:D


in before lock.....
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#3235663 - 04/30/13 02:41 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: REM7]
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 Originally Posted By: REM7
Man I will say this. Take a real long hard look at yourself and this situation and evaluate it because I got a feeling that you just may miss her and actually love her more than you thought. Adult conversation is the only way out for you and will give her closure. Wish you the best of luck Kilby.


I'm with Rem7 on this.You better be sure what your asking for because you might just get it. she sounds like a good person that deserves to be treated with respect and no BS. Might be time to Man up. Easier said than done because I need to do a little Man up myself. Today is as good as any.
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#3235665 - 04/30/13 02:43 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: WRbowhunter]
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Post some pics. There are plenty of single guys on here that would love a woman that supports a man that hunts and fishes.

I heard Catman needs some help picking shrooms.

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#3235666 - 04/30/13 02:44 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: WRbowhunter]
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Got any pics?....
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#3235667 - 04/30/13 02:44 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: WRbowhunter]
Eric Kilby
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 Originally Posted By: WRbowhunter
 Originally Posted By: REM7
Man I will say this. Take a real long hard look at yourself and this situation and evaluate it because I got a feeling that you just may miss her and actually love her more than you thought. Adult conversation is the only way out for you and will give her closure. Wish you the best of luck Kilby.


I'm with Rem7 on this.You better be sure what your asking for because you might just get it. she sounds like a good person that deserves to be treated with respect and no BS. Might be time to Man up. Easier said than done because I need to do a little Man up myself. Today is as good as any.


I know she deserves the respect because she is such a good person, Thats why I came here asking for advice. I just hate seeing a woman cry and I know that is going to happen, I like it alot more when they get pissed at me and dumps me but that aint going to happen this time
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#3235670 - 04/30/13 02:47 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
I like it alot more when they get pissed at me and dumps me but that aint going to happen this time


Kill her cat. Works everytime.
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#3235672 - 04/30/13 02:48 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: redheadshooter]
Eric Kilby
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 Originally Posted By: redheadshooter
 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
I like it alot more when they get pissed at me and dumps me but that aint going to happen this time


Kill her cat. Works everytime.


So many comebacks popped in my head but trying to keep the topic unlocked..
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#3235676 - 04/30/13 02:54 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
 Originally Posted By: redheadshooter
 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
I like it alot more when they get pissed at me and dumps me but that aint going to happen this time


Kill her cat. Works everytime.


So many comebacks popped in my head but trying to keep the topic unlocked..


Let's keep it G now.
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#3235685 - 04/30/13 03:06 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: redheadshooter]
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Sounds like a decent girl all around.
She deverves the truth and not strung along if it's not going to work.
Sure you'd want the same if it were flipped.

Know where you're coming from though, tough spot for ya no doubt.

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#3235690 - 04/30/13 03:13 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
 Originally Posted By: Poser
All you have to do is do (or, better yet, not do) things to make that person break up with you.


well that is sorta what i had thought but thus far it is not working ...
Shoot her rabbit
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#3235693 - 04/30/13 03:16 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: timberjack86]
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Tell her you really, really , really like the latest issue of Sports Illustrated and want up take up basketball.
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#3235695 - 04/30/13 03:20 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: iowavf]
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Sleep with her sister.
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#3235698 - 04/30/13 03:22 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: paincave_2000]
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 Originally Posted By: paincave_2000
Sleep with her sister.


DING!DING!DING!DING!DING!DING! We have a winner!!!
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#3235701 - 04/30/13 03:28 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: timberjack86]
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 Originally Posted By: timberjack86
 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
 Originally Posted By: Poser
All you have to do is do (or, better yet, not do) things to make that person break up with you.


well that is sorta what i had thought but thus far it is not working ...
Shoot her rabbit


....but wait til November.

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#3235713 - 04/30/13 03:47 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: preds1]
Pic IN the Casa
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 Originally Posted By: preds1
Come on out the closet like everyone else. \:D


\:D \:D

I was going to say to tell her you wanted to pursue your dream of an NBA star.
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#3235714 - 04/30/13 03:49 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Tennessee Todd]
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First take a hard look at yourself. (don't answer here but think about these things)

1. Are you even looking for a serious long term/permanent relationship?
2. Are you interested in getting married?
3. Did you love her initially?
4. Did the WOW wear off and now the relationship is work?
5. Are you doing YOUR 100% to keep the relationship healthy?

There is a HUGE difference between "just dating" and looking for a life long mate. This sounds clinical but you will have to spend some personal time making a list of deal breakers and gotta have's for your serious committed relationship.
Important stuff like religious beliefs, kids, work, politics, Family issues......

Once the " Wheeeeee! this is fun!" Wears off, relationships are work and sacrifice. Keeping them fun is hard and it is easy to let things settle into a comfortable routine and get boring.

IF you have done the soul searching and she makes it past the deal breaker part of the screening process, then ask yourself....Why are you kicking her to the curb?
Perhaps the problem IS her, Perhaps it is You?

If it is because of a deal breaker, man up and talk with her. She will feel better about the break up, You will feel better about yourself, and both of you will be better people afterwards.

If its because of YOU.... the decision is much tougher. Do you talk with her about your issues? Do you suck it up and keep going? Do you try and work through whatever is making you want to leave?

Hope this helps and I wish you the best moving forward.
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#3235718 - 04/30/13 03:51 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: fishboy1]
jb3
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Her mom hot? That would definitely be a deal breaker.
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#3235739 - 04/30/13 04:17 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
Harold Money jr
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Tell her you saw the strangest thing in the tndeer general forum when she see's your post, she'll get the hint.
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#3235755 - 04/30/13 04:48 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Harold Money jr]
shelbydeer
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Do it now , it only gets tougher as time goes by , don't keep her going if u know the end result
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#3235757 - 04/30/13 04:51 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: shelbydeer]
jb3
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Don't drag it out. You ever seen "Fatal Attraction"? Heard the name Lorena Bobbit?
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#3235759 - 04/30/13 04:54 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Harold Money jr]
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Have the talk, you may be surprised what you BOTH have to say....
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#3235764 - 04/30/13 05:06 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: fishboy1]
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 Originally Posted By: fishboy1
First take a hard look at yourself. (don't answer here but think about these things)

1. Are you even looking for a serious long term/permanent relationship?
2. Are you interested in getting married?
3. Did you love her initially?
4. Did the WOW wear off and now the relationship is work?
5. Are you doing YOUR 100% to keep the relationship healthy?

There is a HUGE difference between "just dating" and looking for a life long mate. This sounds clinical but you will have to spend some personal time making a list of deal breakers and gotta have's for your serious committed relationship.
Important stuff like religious beliefs, kids, work, politics, Family issues......

Once the " Wheeeeee! this is fun!" Wears off, relationships are work and sacrifice. Keeping them fun is hard and it is easy to let things settle into a comfortable routine and get boring.

IF you have done the soul searching and she makes it past the deal breaker part of the screening process, then ask yourself....Why are you kicking her to the curb?
Perhaps the problem IS her, Perhaps it is You?

If it is because of a deal breaker, man up and talk with her. She will feel better about the break up, You will feel better about yourself, and both of you will be better people afterwards.

If its because of YOU.... the decision is much tougher. Do you talk with her about your issues? Do you suck it up and keep going? Do you try and work through whatever is making you want to leave?

Hope this helps and I wish you the best moving forward.


This is good advice. A lot of people are terrible at looking at a situation objectively, and always externalize problems. If you have the ability to see your situation with a wide-angle lens and swallow pride, you can learn a lot about yourself.

I, for one, had no idea how selfish I was until I got married and had kids, then got irritated at not having any time to do anything. It seems worse in America - we want everything without having to give up anything or work especially hard for it.

Spend some time trying to figure out what you want. If you are worried about your impact on her, then I guarantee you this - the thing that helps the recipient of that kind of news get over it the most is when there is a reason. Otherwise, she'll just be questioning herself, you, and the whole situation for a long time. If you give her the courtesy of trying to pin-point something that's a real deal-breaker before dumping her, it will help her "digest" the news better in the long run...and hate you less \:\)
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#3235790 - 04/30/13 05:50 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Crosshairy]
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The first thing to do is set down out in the woods & try to figure out what love is,not your love mom & dad & brother/sister,but the other kind & sex has nothing to do with it.The first thing you will decide is if she is a good person ,my wife is the best lady I know,it started there then I got to know her ,she is my best freind.If she cant be your best freind you may want to keep looking for the 1,good luck & a lot of folks never find theirs,we have been married over 28 years
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#3235791 - 04/30/13 05:55 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: preds1]
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Fart at dinner, many times, in public.
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#3235794 - 04/30/13 06:06 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: strutandrut]
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Post up a couple pics, somebody might would like to have a women like you described.
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#3235795 - 04/30/13 06:06 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: strutandrut]
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I strongly disagree about sex not being part of "the other kind of love", Mike. I'll agree that there is none better with someone you love, but it works the exact opposite when the one you love or the one that loves you ain't getting what they need. The shine gets pretty dang dull with no sex.
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#3235801 - 04/30/13 06:15 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Hangnail]
rem270
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Good Luck with it... I just went through the big D after 4 yrs of marriage. I know your not married but might as well be since your living together. You might not think you care for her, and you might not like you should. But when/if you do it your going to think you made the wrong decision and question yourself everyday for a while. Get ready for an emotional roller coaster ride because you'll have ups and downs over it. Or atleast i did anyways. But in the end i realized i wasnt in love with my wife and obviously she wasnt with me because she moved off to Cali with another dude.

Give it alot of thought and just talk to her about how your feeling. Dont let your pride hold you back.
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#3235806 - 04/30/13 06:22 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Hangnail]
Eric Kilby
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 Originally Posted By: Hangnail
I strongly disagree about sex not being part of "the other kind of love", Mike. I'll agree that there is none better with someone you love, but it works the exact opposite when the one you love or the one that loves you ain't getting what they need. The shine gets pretty dang dull with no sex.



She would be the one complaining about not getting it enough
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#3235815 - 04/30/13 06:43 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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If your not happy or just want out for what ever reason, grow some ba!!s and tell her. No reason to drag it out.
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#3235831 - 04/30/13 07:08 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: DIRTTRAX]
leader
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Great advice: food for thought.

I knew my wife many years before we ever dated, friends of friends and ran the same circles. One night at a wedding party for mutual friends we started talking and both knew there was something there. I proceeded to tell her I wasn't ready to settle down and wasn't ready for the whit picket fence etc....
1.5 yrs we were married and 4 yrs later had a house with a white picket fence.
9 yrs later ( May 15th) and two kids and I couldn't be happier. We still laugh about that Da$( white picket fence on occasion.

My point is you may need to REALLY do some soul searching and talk to her about both your feelings. You will know by the end of "the talk"
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#3235846 - 04/30/13 07:25 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: leader]
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Do you even own a pair of pants?
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#3235880 - 04/30/13 07:58 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: TNGunsmoke]
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bring home another girl.she will either get the message and leave or your in for a very fun nite.either way you win
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#3235890 - 04/30/13 08:11 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: turk870]
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 Originally Posted By: turk870
bring home another girl.she will either get the message and leave or your in for a very fun nite.either way you win


I take back what I said, DO THIS ^^^^^^^^^


Edited by DIRTTRAX (04/30/13 08:11 PM)
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#3235906 - 04/30/13 08:32 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: turk870]
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 Originally Posted By: turk870
bring home another girl.she will either get the message and leave or your in for a very fun nite.either way you win


I tried this awhile back & girlfriend #1 left, then she called back a little later & said she had just bought a can of gas & a new lighter. I didnt sleep too well that night.

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#3235922 - 04/30/13 08:49 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: kdxdude]
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I'll tell her tomorrow...
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#3235925 - 04/30/13 08:50 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: SilverFox]
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Ok... Just kidding.


Man up
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#3235963 - 04/30/13 10:04 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: TNGunsmoke]
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Only question I got.....are you scared of commitment?
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#3235975 - 04/30/13 10:18 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: J.C.W.]
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Tell her that it's not her...it's you. That you need to go out and find yourself because you don't know who you really are anymore.
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#3236065 - 05/01/13 06:39 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: strutandrut]
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just tell her that you need to move on, that theres no chance of you guys ever getting back together, then leave. You will need to change your phone number.
The end.

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#3236091 - 05/01/13 07:11 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Crow Terminator]
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 Originally Posted By: Crow Terminator
Tell her that it's not her...it's you. That you need to go out and find yourself because you don't know who you really are anymore.



"Had a girl once tell me, It's not you, it's me! I said, you're dang right it's You, YOU Heifer!"

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#3236092 - 05/01/13 07:13 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: jb3]
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 Originally Posted By: jb3
Don't drag it out. You ever seen "Fatal Attraction"? Heard the name Lorena Bobbit?


Speaking of Lorena Bobbit, did you know she was never charged with a felony?

Yep, only a mis-de-weiner

\:D
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#3236094 - 05/01/13 07:14 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Tennessee Todd]
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Show her this thread. Then the fight will be on and you can both part ways.
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#3236114 - 05/01/13 07:56 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Diehard Hunter]
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Obviously you have made the decision that the relationship isn't going to work.

Take your freakin' panties off and put your big boy britches on and tell her! You are not doing either of you a favor by staying in a relationship going nowhere.

The sooner it is over, the sooner you can both move on.
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#3236139 - 05/01/13 08:26 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Dbllunger]
Hangnail
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I have never understood the whole live together thing. Either date or get married. Breakups are worse, trying to divide things you bought together, whose moving out, etc.
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#3236218 - 05/01/13 10:03 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: strutandrut]
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The grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence even though it may look that way.
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#3236245 - 05/01/13 10:33 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: FastXD]
AndyW
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You Just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just listen to me
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
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#3236293 - 05/01/13 11:44 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: AndyW]
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 Originally Posted By: AndyW
You Just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just listen to me
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free


There are these plus another 45 ways.
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#3236339 - 05/01/13 01:19 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Tennessee Todd]
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 Originally Posted By: Tennessee Todd
 Originally Posted By: jb3
Don't drag it out. You ever seen "Fatal Attraction"? Heard the name Lorena Bobbit?


Speaking of Lorena Bobbit, did you know she was never charged with a felony?

Yep, only a mis-de-weiner

\:D


Funny story... My BNL took the call when she called in to 911 to report what she had done. She didn't give him the whole story of what had happened.
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#3236657 - 05/01/13 08:02 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: SilverFox]
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Sounds like a good woman. There's always going to be someone better looking or smarter than the one you're with. Keep looking for greener pastures and you'll end up peter principled to the point of being with someone "too good" for you or so high maintenance that you can't hold on to her. A woman should be adored, not tolerated. Move on, she deserves it.
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#3236662 - 05/01/13 08:06 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: TNRazorback]
Mudbone
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 Originally Posted By: TNRazorback
Sounds like a good woman. There's always going to be someone better looking or smarter than the one you're with. Keep looking for greener pastures and you'll end up peter principled to the point of being with someone "too good" for you or so high maintenance that you can't hold on to her. A woman should be adored, not tolerated. Move on, she deserves it.
deeeeaaaammm!! Heard that loud and clear.
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#3236671 - 05/01/13 08:14 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: strutandrut]
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I was told that if your not best friends with your mate it wont last and Sex does not make a relationship. The Passion sex spark will fade. But best friends with love will endure a life time. Well my Grand fathers and Grand mothers must have been right

My Grandparents have 150 years of marraige between them. Both sets made to thier 75 wedding anniversary.

Well a light switch went off this past year for me. It finally sunk in my brain.

I wont marry again but it did sink in.
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#3236727 - 05/01/13 09:06 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Stalkhunter]
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Go to walmart and buy a bottle of purfume and give yourself a spray when you see her and try to avoid her.The nose never lies!!!!!!!!
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#3236746 - 05/01/13 09:21 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: ClubHead]
in the dog house!
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LOL .............. This is a very interesting thread \:D
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#3236759 - 05/01/13 09:33 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: strutandrut]
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how are you going to feel when she finds somebody that does love her
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#3236761 - 05/01/13 09:35 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
I dont love her like a man should love a woman he wants to spend his life with, She is a awesome person and supports whatever i want to do, doesnt complain one bit about hunting , guns or fishing and will wait on me hand and foot if i so desired. She says she loves me with all her heart and everything but i dont feel the same and I guess I am to much of a softy because i have felt this way for a while but didnt want to make anyone cry...


When I read this I have to wonder if the problem is that she is too easy to get along with and that makes her seem less exciting in your eyes. What if she was a bit more mysterious or tempermental? Is that what is missing here? A woman that makes you work for her affection? Sometimes men are as bad as women in wanting an exciting partner to the point that they throw away a really good one looking for something that will ultimately leave them unhappy. I'd think long and hard before I got rid of a woman with the qualities you mentioned above if this is the problem.

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#3236768 - 05/01/13 09:48 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Hunter 257W]
in the dog house!
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This ^^^^^^^^
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#3236781 - 05/01/13 10:00 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: in the dog house!]
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just say it aint working we need some space
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#3236785 - 05/01/13 10:03 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: in the dog house!]
Hangnail
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If you want a mysterious woman, rent ya one. A temperamental woman is a nice name for a nerve eater. Good luck making that one happy.

Bottom line is there is something about this woman that doesn't do it for you. If you can't stand the thought of not waking up to her for the rest of your life, let her go. Just don't complain about the one you let get away.

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#3236846 - 05/02/13 05:02 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: redheadshooter]
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She sounds like a good woman that deserves the respect of a respectful conversation
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#3236856 - 05/02/13 05:53 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: TRIGGER]
BuckWild
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Sack up and talk to her...why waste any more of your time??? Life is too short to be miserable and unhappy.

Besides that, sounds like she could do better anyway.
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#3236866 - 05/02/13 06:00 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: TRIGGER]
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 Originally Posted By: TRIGGER
She sounds like a good woman that deserves the respect of a respectful conversation

Best post of this thread.
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#3236881 - 05/02/13 06:28 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: BMan]
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 Originally Posted By: BMan
 Originally Posted By: TRIGGER
She sounds like a good woman that deserves the respect of a respectful conversation

Best post of this thread.


X2
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#3236906 - 05/02/13 07:17 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: preds1]
Eric Kilby
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well she came home and just happen to look at the computer history and found this thread .. laptop was thrown and me lots of crying happen .. had a heart to heart and we are good i guess i didnt realize what i had
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#3236907 - 05/02/13 07:19 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
leader
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So your sticking with her?
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#3236922 - 05/02/13 07:37 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: leader]
Hangnail
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Eric, my boy, if you left this thread up on an open screen, you need to rethink your life in more ways than one. You might want to invest in some type of steel undies to protect your troublemaker. It might end up in a jar.
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#3236934 - 05/02/13 08:10 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Hangnail]
beechnut
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 Originally Posted By: Hangnail
Eric, my boy, if you left this thread up on an open screen, you need to rethink your life in more ways than one. You might want to invest in some type of steel undies to protect your troublemaker. It might end up in a jar.


By reading this thread....a baby food jar will suffice....
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#3236937 - 05/02/13 08:12 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: beechnut]
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 Originally Posted By: beechnut
By reading this thread....a baby food jar will suffice....


Hilarious! Mean, But hilarious!
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#3236954 - 05/02/13 08:31 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: redheadshooter]
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So once she told you how good she was you realized it was worth staying? OK. I don't know the specifics here but I hope it works out for you.

In the meantime, you will need to turn in your mancard and go through remedial man training. In your case you may have to go all the way back to picking on girls on the playground during recess. \:\)
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#3236958 - 05/02/13 08:38 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Dbllunger]
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Dbllunger, that playground thing would get him in more trouble than he's already in. I'm thinking Eric would be rather uncomfortable in a prison setting. He'll be fine. He's just a slow learner when it comes to women, like the rest of us.
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#3236965 - 05/02/13 08:43 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Dbllunger]
in the dog house!
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I hope things work out for you Eric, sounds like you came to your senses anyway, no matter how you got there.

A good woman is hard to find these days. Especially one that will put up with an outdoorsman. If your anything like me, we spend countless hours on stand or on the lake. From what you said about her, sounds like you got what most guys are looking for. Glad you woke up and smelled the coffee. With all this great advice on here how could you go wrong. \:D
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#3236986 - 05/02/13 09:23 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: in the dog house!]
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#3237060 - 05/02/13 10:53 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: preds1]
rem270
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I'll give you my ex wifes phone number in return for your ex's \:D
Or if she has a facebook we can swap names of them!!

lol jk.. good luck with it all
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#3237097 - 05/02/13 11:42 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: rem270]
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Just be sure that you are together for the right reasons now. Back in college I had a girlfriend that I knew we should just go our separate ways. Well, after getting the courage to breakup, she cried and cried on me. I then felt so sorry for her that I basically took the breakup back. With-in the week I knew I had messed up and should have weathered the crying storm and stuck to my guns. Yes, its hard sometimes to feel like we have hurt someone but in your case if your not feeling it anymore its better for her to feel bad now and not prolong it. It will actually hurt you both in the long run. I ended up wasting another year of the girls and my lives staying in a relationship that I was not mentally in.
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#3237118 - 05/02/13 12:14 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
How do you end a relationship when nothing is wrong with it? My relationships have always ended like a fuse reaching a stick of dynamite...


The always prudent and never failing statement, "It's not you; it's me." Sorry if this has been said I didn't read all 10 pages.
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#3237127 - 05/02/13 12:25 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: BlountArrow]
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\:D Why is everyone still giving advice on here? By the sound of it, he won't be allowed on Tndeer for quite some time \:D
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#3237136 - 05/02/13 12:47 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: JCDEERMAN]
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 Originally Posted By: JCDEERMAN
\:D Why is everyone still giving advice on here? By the sound of it, he won't be allowed on Tndeer for quite some time \:D


Sounds like you might have some girl issues going on as well. Would you like to talk about it?
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#3237186 - 05/02/13 01:52 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: in the dog house!]
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 Originally Posted By: in the dog house!
I hope things work out for you Eric, sounds like you came to your senses anyway, no matter how you got there.

A good woman is hard to find these days. Especially one that will put up with an outdoorsman. If your anything like me, we spend countless hours on stand or on the lake. From what you said about her, sounds like you got what most guys are looking for. Glad you woke up and smelled the coffee. With all this great advice on here how could you go wrong. \:D


Guessin he just needed a laptop heaved his way to see the light!!
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#3237188 - 05/02/13 01:54 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Kingston]
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So, an upset woman heaving laptops seems to have enlightened him.

I guess he just needed a little excitement in his relationship and this was it.

Hope everything works out for ya. good luck

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#3237255 - 05/02/13 02:51 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Diehard Hunter]
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 Originally Posted By: Diehard Hunter
Show her this thread. Then the fight will be on and you can both part ways.


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Good luck with it Eric.


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#3237279 - 05/02/13 03:10 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: preds1]
BlountArrow
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...or just tell her you've been bumpin' uglies with her mother.
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#3237305 - 05/02/13 03:33 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: BlountArrow]
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Wabbit season, Duck Season, Wabbit Season....having a laptop heaved at me would have made my decision for me. \:\) Best of luck man.
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#3237320 - 05/02/13 03:51 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Food Plot 101]
Eric Kilby
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I guess i just had to do some soul searching to realize what i had, all my ex girlfriends was complete and utter pains to be with.. i guess this one is just so much different im not used to it. I didnt leave this thread open she went into the history and found in because she was looking for something else which is just my luck... We never fight and she supports whatever i want to do guess i could have it worse ..
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#3237333 - 05/02/13 04:08 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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Just have her call me. I'll take care of it and that's a fact, Jack. No more problems and everybody happy, happy, happy.
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#3237336 - 05/02/13 04:10 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: bowriter]
Hangnail
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Have you told her yet this is a joke and you've really purchased that 2 carat diamond to steal her heart with for good makeup sex?
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#3237349 - 05/02/13 04:31 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
I guess i just had to do some soul searching to realize what i had, all my ex girlfriends was complete and utter pains to be with.. i guess this one is just so much different im not used to it. I didnt leave this thread open she went into the history and found in because she was looking for something else which is just my luck... We never fight and she supports whatever i want to do guess i could have it worse ..

I'm glad to see you came to your senses. I'm on the other side of the coin on this,in that I'm the one losing an 11yr marriage to the best thing that has ever happened to me,so I can't really give you any advice other than to honor and treasure,who sounds to me like a great woman and never let her forget that!
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#3237352 - 05/02/13 04:42 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
I guess i just had to do some soul searching to realize what i had, all my ex girlfriends was complete and utter pains to be with.. i guess this one is just so much different im not used to it. I didnt leave this thread open she went into the history and found in because she was looking for something else which is just my luck... We never fight and she supports whatever i want to do guess i could have it worse ..


I was wondering what she was doing going through the history. Does she trust you? Why would she be looking up what you were looking at?
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#3237359 - 05/02/13 04:57 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: bigasports]
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She was trying to find a page she had forgot to bookmark before she went to work
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#3237456 - 05/02/13 07:25 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: preds1]
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Does she know about your criminal record with the rabbit?
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#3237514 - 05/02/13 08:40 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Camp David]
Eric Kilby
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Yes she does and even pokes fun at me... I get hassled on and off the internet lol
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#3237580 - 05/02/13 09:37 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: TNGunsmoke]
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Guess this answers an earlier question I had... Which topics draw the most responses \:D
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#3237587 - 05/02/13 09:42 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: gasman]
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if its a topic you can get made fun of for it will get alot of responses ... I happen to remember my rabbit thread went on for 15 or so pages
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#3237589 - 05/02/13 09:44 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
if its a topic you can get made fun of for it will get alot of responses ... I happen to remember my rabbit thread went on for 15 or so pages
good luck man
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#3237595 - 05/02/13 09:52 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: gasman]
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so whats the verdict? is she gone?
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#3237630 - 05/02/13 10:36 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: rem270]
Eric Kilby
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nope all is good she even read all the replies on here and wanted to defend me lol... I guess I am luckier than i thought
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#3237634 - 05/02/13 10:43 PM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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50 ways to leave your lover ;\)
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#3237756 - 05/03/13 07:10 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Eric Kilby]
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 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
I dont love her like a man should love a woman he wants to spend his life with, She is a awesome person and supports whatever i want to do, doesnt complain one bit about hunting , guns or fishing and will wait on me hand and foot if i so desired. She says she loves me with all her heart and everything but i dont feel the same and I guess I am to much of a softy because i have felt this way for a while but didnt want to make anyone cry...

That is what you tell her. Making her cry now is much better than stringing her along for nothing. If she isn't the one for you, tell the truth now. Your worry about her crying may be keeping her from meeting the person who will love her the way she should be.
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#3237757 - 05/03/13 07:11 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Bowdacious]
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 Originally Posted By: Bowdacious
 Originally Posted By: Eric Kilby
I dont love her like a man should love a woman he wants to spend his life with, She is a awesome person and supports whatever i want to do, doesnt complain one bit about hunting , guns or fishing and will wait on me hand and foot if i so desired. She says she loves me with all her heart and everything but i dont feel the same and I guess I am to much of a softy because i have felt this way for a while but didnt want to make anyone cry...

That is what you tell her. Making her cry now is much better than stringing her along for nothing. If she isn't the one for you, tell the truth now. Your worry about her crying may be keeping her from meeting the person who will love her the way she should be.


Oh hush Nancy, what do you know about women?

You need to leave it to us experts on here......
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#3237784 - 05/03/13 07:42 AM Re: Odd relationshhip question.. [Re: Tennessee Todd]
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\:D
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