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#2418273 - 06/15/11 03:40 PM Is the USA at war?
Bambi Buster
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A question here out of academic curiosity. Within the last three years, have any of you attended visitation or funeral services for an American armed forces member killed in action in Iraq or Afghanistan?
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#2418282 - 06/15/11 03:46 PM Re: Is the USA at war? [Re: Bambi Buster]
ferg
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None here - but sure would if I was aware of same -
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#2418292 - 06/15/11 03:53 PM Re: Is the USA at war? [Re: ferg]
TAFKAP
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No, I have not. I wasn't aware of any recently, although I haven't sought any out to attend, either.
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#2418424 - 06/15/11 06:42 PM Re: Is the USA at war? [Re: TAFKAP]
smstone22
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Memorial service.
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#2418433 - 06/15/11 06:49 PM Re: Is the USA at war? [Re: smstone22]
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I have attended four. Three GA and one TN Marine coming home on an Angel Flight for the last time. I also visit the Memorial Cemetary in Rome, GA with my wife and daughters. I will never ever Forget!!!
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#2418615 - 06/15/11 09:07 PM Re: Is the USA at war? [Re: Bambi Buster]
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none here locally have passed.
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#2419009 - 06/16/11 09:49 AM Re: Is the USA at war? [Re: Boone 58]
Bambi Buster
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#2419063 - 06/16/11 10:56 AM Re: Is the USA at war? [Re: Bambi Buster]
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My dad (retired Marine) goes to every one of them that's within reasonable driving range of his home. He usually makes 2 or 3 a month.
He also coordinates military funeral honors if the family requests them.
Some of the stories he has told me are pretty sad. Armed forces personell with no one, or maybe just one or two people at their funeral.
One funeral that he went to last year there was just the widow there and an estranged relative to the family. The preacher didn't even show up. Dad pulled out his Bible and did his best to honor the man as a stand-in for the missing pastor.

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#2420082 - 06/17/11 01:25 PM Re: Is the USA at war? [Re: BlackBelt]
Bambi Buster
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Results are as I expected. On the forum for 48+ hours, 250+ views, only two affirmative responses. Both of those were from current/former service members who've been there/done that recently. That does not make their acts any less commendable.

Over the last 3 years, 40 Tennesseans have died in Iraq or Afghanistan, nearly all at the hands of the enemy. That's more than one a month. They hailed from Memphis to Kingsport and all points in between. Yet among the TnDeer membership, a supposed bastion of conservative, apple pie eating, flag waving,NASCAR loving good old boy Americans, not a single member knew any of them, or their families or their friends well enough to attend their farewells.

The Secretary of Defense and the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff have both recently lamented the tremendous and widening disconnect that exists between the U.S. military and those of us whom they voluntarily give so much to defend. A liberal pundit observed over four years ago that "..this war has been emotionally outsourced to a professional class that mainstream American has almost no contact with." Someone else said, "America is not at war, the military is at war. America is at the mall".

Several who are serving currently have told me in more blunt terms, "They have no idea what we're going through, and worse; they just don't care." It gets harder every day to convince them they are wrong.

'Tis a pity; 'tis a crying shame.



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#2420112 - 06/17/11 01:57 PM Re: Is the USA at war? [Re: Bambi Buster]
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I have never attended a funeral for someone that I did not personally know.

Why they died is not a part of the reason, just that I did not know them or their families and none were from my area, to my knowledge.

I think that you are being a bit harsh on people here.

How can you know how often prayers are sent out to the troops. How can you know how many people in this great state do things everyday to help the soldiers?
How can you possibly know what is in everyone's heart?

I take offense at the fact that you are basically saying that we do not care about the troops. You have no idea how each individual feels.

I'm not going to seek out memorials for soldiers that I do not know. I am not going to a funeral of someone I do not know. I can barely go to funerals of people that I do know.

What I will continue to do is support them in whatever they do in anyway that I can, if that only means to send a prayer or good thought their way.

I am sorry that you feel so strongly that you will call everyone out like this....

Personally, I'm offended and very surprised that more here aren't as well....

Just my opinion.
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