#2054764 - 09/02/10 05:45 AM
A Bow of His Own.
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Outdoors With John L. Sloan Copyright John L. Sloan, 9-2010 Sept1, 2010
A Bow Of His Own.
I had noticed him watching me sometimes late of an afternoon when I shot a few arrows on my backyard range. Each time he kept getting a little closer. I knew his dad had died young of a heart attack and his mom was working two jobs. They had it kinda rough.
One afternoon I waved him over. “Kina interested in archery?” I asked. “What do you do with it?” He asked. I allowed I hunted with it, all kinds of game. Wanta see some of them?” “I sure do.” He answered so I took him up to my office and his eyes got big at all the heads and bows on the wall.
“Think I could try it?”
“These bows are all too heavy for you. We need to find a lighter draw weight. These are all 70-75 pound pull. You need something around 50 pounds that will match your draw length.” After explaining that, I measured him at 28 inches.
“How much does one cost?” He asked. I knew times were tough so I said, “Let me do a little looking around. Maybe I can find a good used one for not much.”
A few days later, I made a trade for a serviceable Hoyt with a new string and six matching arrows. I set it with one sight pin and tuned it. That afternoon I waved him over and took him through the drill. Then I handed him the bow and showed how to knock an arrow. I told him to just hold the pin steady on the dot and let his fingers relax. By the end of the week, I moved the target to 20 yards and he was nailing it.
Now I told him he had to take the Hunter Education course. He proudly showed me his card. Dad was always going to take but he never did” “One more thing before you start hunting. I said, “You need to learn some woodcraft. That means you and I am going to spend a lot of time just walking and sitting in the woods.” And we did. Many days I carried my bow and he just went along. We talked of things like the sounds squirrels make and how deer move and ethical shots. He got good at blood trailing. One afternoon, sitting on a sunny log, a doe walked by at 25 yards. I never raised the bow.
“Why didn’t you shoot her?” he asked “Don’t need the meat and how could you learn about deer habits if I shot her? Besides, I might have missed and looked like a fool.” He laughed at that, and I told him we all miss sometimes. All of us.
He was a quick learner so one afternoon I put him in a big ladder stand I had. When I came back at dusk, he was shaking. “I think I missed a big doe. She was only 20 yards and broadside but couldn’t hold the bow steady” I laughed and told about a few my misses, especially the bull elk at 8 yards. Then we found his arrow-clean miss. I said, “It is better to miss than wound.”
Two days later, it was a cold clear morning and I put him in another stand and told him to watch a fence crossing. I came back by about 10 and he was on the ground looking at something. “I think this is blood…I’m sure it is.” And it was. I had him show me exactly where the deer was standing when he shot. No sign of an arrow.
We started the trail and it was a good one. Fifty yards along, we found the arrow. It was covered in blood. I looked ahead and could see the deer but I didn’t say anything, I let him keep working the trail until he came up on him-a small six-point, shot perfectly. I smeared some blood on his face and explained the ritual.
Finally, one day he asked what he owed for the bow and arrows. I told him, “Come summer, you mow my yard four times and we’ll call it even.” I thought he was going to cry. He did hug me and that sort embarrassed me.
I do not know how many deer that kid has killed by now. I know he hunts every time he comes home from college and always brings me some meat. He has a new bow and a few weeks back he brought the old Hoyt over and asked if I would hang it on my wall.
“No.” I said, that bow is for your son or maybe daughter. You keep it and pass on what you learned from me.”
“I don’t recon I’ll ever stop learning from you…ever.
Like to broke my heart. ###

Cutline:#1 One afternoon, sitting on a sunny log, a doe walked by at 25 yards. I never raised my bow.
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#2054780 - 09/02/10 06:18 AM
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Awesome...I wanna say Ive read that somewhere before. Really enjoyed it. I got to teach my brother and a hunters bond is almost as strong as a brothers bond.
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#2054789 - 09/02/10 06:36 AM
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That's what it is all about! You set a great example for the rest of us!
Thank You!
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#2054792 - 09/02/10 06:37 AM
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BowGuy- You read the title in Bowhunt America. Same title, different story.
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#2054810 - 09/02/10 06:50 AM
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Cool story
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#2054812 - 09/02/10 06:51 AM
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#2054841 - 09/02/10 07:26 AM
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Excellent story BW!! And thank you for sharing with someone who needed it.
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#2054843 - 09/02/10 07:29 AM
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I feel the respect you have for each other, he's a fine youg man that has one hell of a teacher.
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#2054862 - 09/02/10 07:37 AM
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Love your work BW.
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#2054908 - 09/02/10 07:56 AM
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Thats Awesome!
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#2054921 - 09/02/10 08:03 AM
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The young man in the picture is the son of Jeff Coggins former girlfriend. I took the picture some years ago on a hoghunt with Jeff.
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#2054934 - 09/02/10 08:14 AM
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Thanks Bowriter. That is an awesome story. I hope to meet you one of these days. I'd like to shake your hand....
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#2054968 - 09/02/10 08:31 AM
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Gotcha...well I enjoyed it! Great pic too.
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#2054987 - 09/02/10 08:45 AM
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Good story, there is nothing more rewarding than taking a kid into the outdoors and teaching them about it!
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#2054994 - 09/02/10 08:47 AM
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Great story. Thanks BW
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#2055143 - 09/02/10 10:21 AM
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AWESOME post. i needed something like that today. thanks for sharing it with all of us!
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#2055162 - 09/02/10 10:36 AM
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You have given a gift than will last a life time and beyound!
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#2055208 - 09/02/10 10:59 AM
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Really, really good.
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#2055285 - 09/02/10 11:59 AM
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Great story from a great man.
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#2055349 - 09/02/10 12:33 PM
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That's what it is all about! You set a great example for the rest of us!
Thank You! X2, Reminds me of my uncle. My dad never showed me anything about the outdoors. I owe everything I've learned to him. Hes getting older now and I really enjoy hanging his stands and dragging his deer out. Its the circle, that we as outdoorsmen, must never break for our way of life to keep going generation after generation.
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#2055389 - 09/02/10 01:00 PM
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That was a great thing you did, John.
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#2055437 - 09/02/10 01:27 PM
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GREAT story!!
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#2055758 - 09/02/10 07:22 PM
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Great Story!
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#2055828 - 09/02/10 08:19 PM
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Awesome Story BW!!
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#2055880 - 09/02/10 08:53 PM
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Hell of a story.. if thats not what hunting is all about then i don't know what is..
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#2056050 - 09/02/10 10:59 PM
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Good one for sure - thanks bowriter!
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#2056103 - 09/03/10 01:06 AM
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Excellant read.
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#2056115 - 09/03/10 02:29 AM
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Very good Sir! Keep writing, that's some dang good readin!
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#2056614 - 09/03/10 12:51 PM
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Great story! The world needs more mentors like Bowriter.
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#2056667 - 09/03/10 01:40 PM
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'Nother good one BW. Makes ya think....
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#2056695 - 09/03/10 02:02 PM
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That brings back a lot of emotions for me...Never had a father worth a dam and my grandpa was my mentor. He to bought me my first bow when I was 5 or 6 and would come get me every weekend and either take me to shoot or fishing. He passed before I ever really got to tell him how much I appreciated the things he did for me and the man he made me....THANKS BOWRITER
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#2062317 - 09/08/10 01:59 PM
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excellent story
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#2062422 - 09/08/10 03:17 PM
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Brings back memories of when two individuals took me under their wings. It's easy to forget how little things such as you have described in your story can change someones life...I know it sure did change mine. Excellent story.
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#2062501 - 09/08/10 04:23 PM
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Great one
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